In a one-hour conversation after a recent practice, Mills shared some of the names he was called during his childhood, including “darkie,” “blackie,” “petrol sniffer,” “monkey,” “chimp,” “abo” (a derogatory term short for Aboriginal) along with some other disparaging terms of which he was called “regularly at school or on the sporting fields.”
“The better I got in sports,” Mills said, “the worse the racism got.”
The Mills family moved to Canberra because his parents got jobs working in Aboriginal affairs for the government. “the item was a bit like going to Washington,” said Benny Mills, Patty’s father.
Yet leaving their home on Thursday Island in Torres Strait — where, Patty said, everyone “looked like me along with spoke like me” — landed him in of which kindergarten classroom where he was first punched.
“the item was the very beginning of how I was going to be treated for the rest of my time at school, not only by students nevertheless, more appallingly, by teachers along with principals,” Mills said.
Within a few years, when Mills was 9, his parents began explaining the traumatic past of his mother, Yvonne Mills. One of several siblings born to a white man along with an Aboriginal woman, Yvonne along with the some other four children were taken through their mother, Gladys Haynes, in 1949 after their parents had separated. Yvonne, the youngest, was 2 years old. The children were moved to group homes as wards of the state along with sent to separate foster families in a government-sponsored social engineering program designed, in effect, to assimilate Aboriginal children into white society.
Throughout their childhoods, Yvonne along with her siblings were told of which their mother did not want them. The falsehoods were exposed by a government inquiry inside the mid-1990s, which confirmed decades of human rights violations of which made Yvonne part of what became known as Australia’s “Stolen Generations” — although she said she did not receive a written acknowledgment of such status through the South Australian government until 2018. Yvonne had virtually no contact with her mother between the ages of 2 along with 17; Haynes died in 1979.